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Thursday, January 9, 2014

Be.You.Tiful Link Party #2 and an awesome Apple of My Eye Jewelry Giveaway

We're so exited for our 2nd Official Link Party! We LOVED seeing all your Be.You.tiful Posts!!
We were inspired and uplifted!!

 Just a reminder... or if you're just tuning in, this is NOT your mother's link party!! We want to see all your amazing non "crafty" posts. Those wonderful and inspiring posts that have never really had a place to be displayed and celebrated to date! We created this link party so that you may link up your
 Be.YOU.tiful Beauty, Fashion, Inspiration, Health, and Design Posts!

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Your Hosts

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Check Out These Awesome Post for your LOVELY hosts! 



8 Ways to Wear Leather From Love Me, Dani Marie
A Perfectly Grungy Look From Simply Sadie Jane
Bra Sizing Guide From Fry Sauce & Grits


A Sesame Street Birthday Party from Girl Loves Glam
How To Run in The Cold & Snow from Maybe I Will
Nutter Butter Crocodile Valentine Treats from My Mommy Style

Now for a bit of FUN news we've got another AWESOME giveaway for you this week!!! 
Apple of My Eye Jewelry is giving Away
5 Double Gem Necklaces,
 5 Rhinestone Stretch Bracelets, 
5 Crystal Vine Necklaces and a
 $100 Site Credit 

Apple Of My Eye is run by two sisters from Ogden, UT. These girls work to offer stunning designer inspired jewelry at an affordable price. . You can find amazing pieces to glam up any outfit! They have anything from statement necklaces or dainty necklaces all the way to bracelets and rings. They also carry amazing quality makeup brushes! They are often featured on daily deal websites like Jane.com,Groopdealz.com and Sassysteals.com 
You can visit them on Facebook for up to date deals and fun giveaways!




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Now for the part you have all been waiting for, the link party!
Before we begin, here are a few rules we have laid out...
-Link up your be.you.tiful lifestyle posts of design, beauty, fashion, health, and inspirational posts!
-No giveaways, Etsy shops, or other link parties
-Link up starts at 7:00 p.m.
-Don't show up and not socialize! Share, pin, and comment on 2 other link ups, it spreads good karma!
-By linking up, you're giving permission to us to feature your projects and recipes on our social media and blogs with a link back to you.
We're excited to see what you link up!
 Join us every Thursday at 7 pm MST to link your Be. You. tiful posts!

SI

Six Money Saving Mama Tips from Rad Mom Cool Kid

Hey, I'm Briton from Rad Mom Cool Kid!  I'm excited to post at Fry Sauce and Grits today and I'm even more excited for Melanie and that darling bundle of babyliciousness in her arms! In celebration, I'm sharing my favorite money saving mama tips!

Money Saving Mama Tips from Rad Mom Cool Kid

ONE: When my husband and I first found out we were expecting we were broke college students. Like we didn't take out student loans and were paying for everything up front kind of BROKE. Our grocery budget was $20 or less per week. Do you know how much a pregnancy test costs? Let's just say that we were able to buy ONE and it was the cheapest one at the grocery store. I think it cost $7. Do you feel stressed for 9 years ago me? What if it was wrong??!! A few years later we were a new kind of money-less. We were out of school but had just bought our first house!! I think we splurged and found a 2-pack pregnancy test for $12 when baby #2 was discovered. Then, I learned the best pregnancy test tip ever... Dollar Tree pregnancy tests are $1 and just as accurate as the ones at the pharmacy. With baby #3 I got a whole handful of them and they were all correct. Crazy right? Stop wasting $ on pricey tests! SAVINGS: about $6 per test

TWO: Target's store brand diapers are super cheap and super reliable. I have tried so many diapers over the years and these are the ones I always go back to. Also, I don't bother with fancy 'night-time' diapers or pull-up training diapers. I buy a size bigger for night-time if they get overnight leaks. With the pull-ups, I just don't see the point! I let my kids pee their pants, they feel how horrible it is, they stop doing it pretty quickly. I kind of feel like pull-ups drag the process on and on. SAVINGS: about $0.06 per diaper

THREE: Don't buy a high chair. They are big and hard to clean. My kids used a Bumbo- style chair with a tray attachment. They went straight from that to a booster with a tray. They are much easier to clean than a bulky high chair and you can take them on the road. SAVINGS: about $140

FOUR: Get the cheap baby monitor. $20 is all you need to get the monitor that will let you know if your kid is having a problem. I guess if you live in a mansion, you might need something stronger but, normal people- you don't need to watch your baby at all times and hear every single inhale and exhale. YOU NEED SLEEP so set up the basic monitor and close your eyes. SAVINGS: about $230 but the sleep is priceless



FIVE: Shop consignment and thrift stores for baby clothes. It doesn't work as well for older kid clothes because they get worn out before they're grown out of. Newborn-12 months is the perfect time to buy 2nd hand- you'll be surprised at how many items still have the original tags even! I always check our local kids consignment shop for tap and ballet shoes and leotards, holiday dresses, and winter gear- I keep the future in mind and buy bigger sizes and store them if they're high quality! SAVINGS: varies, but usually pretty dang great

SIX: Use Oxy Clean and Folex. Oxy Clean + water + stained baby/kid clothes + soaking overnight = brand new clothes. Do this when you unpack clothes for baby # 2 or when you get a bag of hand-me-downs. Even when you put clothes away squeaky clean, old stains will magically show up, but a good soak will fix everything! Folex is a carpet cleaner. It changed my life as a mother. A friend brought it over one morning after I facebook freaked out about hot pink lipstick all over my carpet and a certain white (white!) preschool stuffed animal that was visiting our home. It got it out! Hot pink waxy cheap lipstick out of fake white fur. I'll be a customer for the rest of my days after that. It costs under $10 and you can find it at home improvement stores and maybe Wal-Mart. The bottle will last a long time and you might want to worship me after you use it the first time. SAVINGS- depends on items being saved, but probably a whole bunch

What are your best steals and deals or tricks and tips when it comes to saving money with a baby? Thanks for hanging out with me today! Here are some of my favorite posts about life with little ones: travel with kids: 10 tips for survival becoming a 'yes' mom


Monday, January 6, 2014

A very important lesson learned


Living Happy On Less from Fry Sauce and Grits

I've had this in my mind for a while and it wasn't until this week that it hit me like a freight train and felt like I really need to share.  What sparked me to write this was a couple nights ago I was doing the nightly dishes after dinner.  Amelia was running around screaming with her clothes off, diaper and tap shoes on; Winston (our dog) chewing on a rubber toy, and during all of this, my husband, McKay came up behind me and gave me a big hug and kissed me.  He'll never know how much that meant to me.  This action made me realize something that I've been longing for a long time, but realized that the package it came in was also a lesson learned.  

If I could sum up 2013 it would be described as hard, a lot of uncertainty, financially stressful, disappointing, and challenging.  You can read some of what happened to McKay and I here.  This switch in jobs and direction has caused us to live with a lot less.  

Slowly but surely I've come to the realization over these past months that I've noticed little but significant blessings in our lives because of this choice we made in McKay's career.  It kind of reminds me of this awesome talk.  

I'm human, I'm a girl, I have insecurities, and I'm not perfect. I struggle with wanting what I don't have.  I get in these moods when I find myself feeling bad for myself, feeling like a failure, and that my life is so insignificant compared to others.  Social media doesn't help this department sometimes.

A couple days ago I was checking my Instagram feed while waiting in the car while McKay bought a part at Autozone and saw a beautiful perfect picture of this girl I follow.  She's gorgeous, skinny, has fame, fortune, nice and beautiful clothes, is successful, goes on fabulous vacations, and seems like her life is absolutely perfect.  I looked at myself in the mirror and looked at a tired, greasy hair, and pajama wearing self momma and thought to myself how lame my life is.  

It wasn't until later that night when doing the dishes when McKay wrapped his arms behind me that I realized, what I've always wanted was right there behind me.  

I remember when we were first married and going through the first year struggles and thought that when McKay, out of the blue, comes up behind me and embraces me, that's when I'll know true love and contentment.   Weird, I know, but if you know my husband he isn't the most affectionate person in the world, so for him to do that, it's a big deal.

When we made the ultimate decision to choose family over career it seemed that we were taking three steps backwards in our lives.  But I've realized that we've made three jumps forward when it comes to my relationship with my husband, my small family, and the things that money can't buy. 

These past six months have been hard, but have been full of these little blessings.  One of these is feeling emotionally closer to my husband and realizing he's the the father and husband I've always wished and hoped I would have.  Feeling so grateful I was blessed with a beautiful, funny, healthy little girl who calls me, "Mum," and brings so much joy to our lives.  Also, I've noticed that since I've stopped thinking about me ad the things I don't have, I've been blessed with so many opportunities to show love and serve those in need. 

At times I wish we could have our old lives back where we didn't have to worry about finances, budgets, and having to do without.  But without these trials we've experienced, I know without a doubt we wouldn't know what it's like to taste what true have happiness can bring.  It can make bonds tighter and lives more meaningful.  I'm grateful I've been able to see these blessings in our lives and the way the man upstairs packaged them the way he did.    


Sunday, January 5, 2014

Link Up Loves #1

Did you hear the awesome news?  Me and five of my lifestyle blogging friends Andie from Maybe I Will, McKenzie from Girl Loves Glam, Sadie from Simply Sadie Jane, Dani from Love Me Dani Marie, and the four girls from My Mommy Style have decided to create a link party called Be.You.Tiful!  This isn't your ordinary link party, where majority of the link ups are crafts and delicious desserts.  This link party is about inspiring others to live a more beautiful life through beauty, fashion, inspiration, health, and design.   The reason why we created this link party because none of us felt like there was a good link party where lifestyle bloggers could showcase their work.  So we decided to create our own.

Some exciting news, we have a $500 Visa Giftcard giveaway on the link party, it ends this week, and isn't one of those giveaways where you have to enter a 100 times to win.  Go here to enter!

I'm excited because each week I'm going to feature my favorites from the party.  This week, we have a lot to choose from.  Here's the ones I was crushing over.


This Vanilla Coconut Homemade Sugar Scrub from Wonky Wonderful.  Not only is this a cheap and natural face and body scrub for beauty purposes, but this would be a really great girlfriend or neighbor gift idea too!


I'm the type of person who likes to eat the 5 things for breakfast. Well, that gets boring as heck.  I was super excited about seeing some other options I could do that will help me to start the morning right with these 10 healthy breakfast recipes from Tone-N-Tighten


Look at how cute this girl is?  She looks like she could be your best friend. Read her really inspirational story on how she lost weight, got healthy, and feels awesome.  She also gives some awesome tips on how to achieve your health and fitness goals from Sweet Charli


Oh my heck, isn't this girl's outfit so adorable from A Little Dash of Darling?  Hello June Cleaver!  This makes me want to wear skirts and pretty jewelry while I'm home all day playing with the babe, getting food thrown in my hair, and working on the computer.  By dressing this way will make me think I live a more fabulous life then I actually do.       


One of my New Year's Resolutions is to get my living room presentable.  We've lived in our home for almost three years and am too afraid of that long angled room.  The gal behind Up To Date Interiors has made a plan for you to conquer different area of your home so it can be beautified in four weeks!  She gives some great tips, love this!  

Make sure to check out our Be.You.Tiful Link Party that starts every Thursday @ 7:00 p.m. to be inspired to live life more beautifully.

Also, make sure you enter into the giveaway to win a $500 Visa Giftcard thanks to our friends at Atly!  It's a really easy giveaway, you don't have to do a 100 things to enter.  What would you do with an extra $500?

Head over and check out the rest of the girls favorite links ups from this week:
Girl Loves Glam, Maybe I Will, Simply Sadie Jane, My Mommy Style, and Love Me Dani Marie!


Friday, January 3, 2014

Exercise Routine for Beginners from the amazing Diana from Livy Loves to Run

I don't know about you but I'm sure if you have a New Year's resolution this year it has to do with getting healthy.  If have a hard time staying motivated like I do, or in need of some inspiration, then you need to meet my friend Diana from Livy Loves to Run.  Read her INCREDIBLE journey of finding herself, her voice, working hard, never giving up, and in the end losing 100 pounds without a trainer, diet pills, or fad diets.  She did it the good old traditional way of eating well and getting off her butt.

I met Diana last year at a blogging conference called SNAP!  Before the conference I found her on Instagram and loved her design work and adorable printables! I was standing in line for food at the conference when I saw her.  I knew exactly who she was.  I just went up to her and told how I follow her on Instagram and love her work. She probably thought I was some stalker lady.  Yeah, kind of.  Anyway, she was so sweet, warm, and friendly.  We sat next to each other and talked for hours and became instant friends. This is a picture of us at a dinner we both attended.  It's probably one of the worst pictures of me, but hey, I love my girl!



This is Diana from Livy Loves to Run!  I am thrilled to be talking about my story on Fry Sauce and Grits.

This is something I am very passionate about.  In early 2013, I knew that I wanted this to be the year that I lost weight.  I knew that I had so much work ahead of me and the thought often times made me intimidated and unsure of myself.  Once I decided to make the steps to achieve my goal, things started to get easier.  I knew I wanted to lose at least 100 lbs.  I have no formal training in exercise or fitness, I just did what I knew and from there researched more about how our bodes and nutrition works and here I am today.  I started walking everywhere.  I took my two little kids in our double stroller and walked all over my neighborhood each day.  I would walk 2-3 miles and sometimes even more.  I am lucky to have several parks in my area so we would walk to the park and then I'd let my kids play, and then we would walk home.  This started to become something I looked forward to because I loved the way I felt after exercise.  I also incorporated a healthy diet which is very important for successful weight loss.  I cut out all fast food, soda, candy, anything that I could buy in a package from the store that was not healthy.  I started to eat chicken, steamed vegetables, almond milk, tons of water (at least 100 oz a day), fruits, turkey burgers, you know very clean and healthy foods.  Of course, it was difficult in the beginning because my body craved sweets.  However, I believe the reason I was so successful is because I let myself have a a cheat day once a week which held me over when I was having intense cravings. Now that I am 10 months into my journey, I can easily control my cravings much better where I don't really give in.  It wasn't always that easy, but over time I realized what I wanted more: healthy lifestyle or gaining weight.


Now I have lost 92 lbs, I have lost over 40 inches combined on my waist and hips (I have started to lose count) and went from a size 20 to a size 10.  I am so honest and open about my journey on my instagram (@livylovestorun) because I have fallen in love with taking care of my body and I want others to feel the same.  I had so many excuses: two kids under 3, a husband gone at work all day, a busy shop owner, and just basically tired at the end of the day.  However, I wanted this for myself more than I could possibly express and I made it happen.  I just want to encourage other women to know that if you want this, you can and will attain it if you change your life around.  You do not need pills, wraps, fad diets, nothing that's not long lasting.  Just hard work and dedication.


So you've decided 2014 is the year you want to change. You're sick of buying clothes in larger sizes, you miss your pre pregnancy jeans or you've been heavy your whole life and have had enough!!
BUT, you don't know where to start.  Well the good thing is, I am not a professional therefore, I know that you have a life.  You may have kids or are a single mom.  You might work 2 jobs and have no time to exercise.  Well I want to give you some tips for REAL women who have REAL lives and don't have 2 hours a day to spend at the gym or even the money for a gym.

Tip #1  Start walking.  It may be very cold where you live, but try and find time in the day where you can walk even just a mile.  You can burn around 200 calories for just a mile.  It takes 20-30 minutes to walk that.  200 calories is almost half of a cheeseburger at McDonalds.  That's a lot of calories.  

Tip #2  Purchase some dumb bells or use a gallon of milk.  Do 5 sets of 10 just lifting them in the arm curl motion.  You'll start getting strength in your arms.  The more it burns, the better its working.

Tip #3  If you don't want to spend money, you don't have to.  The insanity program works, but its like $100 to buy the program, I think even more! Well, last year I discovered Fitness Blender on YouTube. They offer a wide range of fitness videos that targets all areas of your body.  ITS FREE! They are really awesome and I have always worked up a sweat whenever I have used them.  If those don't work for you and you are willing to spend some little money, Jillian Michaels has awesome videos. The 30 Day Shred is one of my favorites and if you complete the 30 day program, you will see some great results! Its only $7 on Amazon.  

Tip #4 This may seem like its very obvious and not original, but since I am in the mindset of losing weight and being more active, I look for ways to burn calories just in my every day life of lugging my kids around while doing errands.  I park my car farther away from the store, if my kids want to go to the library, we walk (1.3 miles away from me), sometimes I run up and down my stairs two or three times in a row to up my heart rate, or even randomly just do some jumping jacks while my food is cooking.  These small little workouts add up A TON! 

Try and make 2014 your year to be the best you! You want it so bad, so now make the changes to do it.

Thursday, January 2, 2014

Be.You.Tiful Link Party #1 and a Giveaway!

When you think of a link party what do you see? DIY projects, crafts and seasonal goodness for all of us to share, try, and love!?!...but is that all blogging is all about? I mean, sure we all love ourselves some good craft time but is that really what inspires us? Is that what makes us want to get up in the morning? Is that what helps us strive to be a better mother, friend, or wife? Isn’t it time for us to have a place to link to for that exact inspiration we are looking for? Well, look NO further! We have come together to bring a link party that is specifically about sharing those inspirational post that we all search for daily! We, as lifestyle bloggers want to bring those posts together! We want to be inspired by your beautifully designed playroom, your amazing weight lose journey, or even your perfectly styled outfits! Come check out what inspires you this week and in turn, you will inspire us!
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We are calling this link party the Be. You. tiful Lifestyle Link Party! We are so excited to have you join us this week. Without any further ado, here are your link party hosts...

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To kick off this awesome link party, we are hosting a HUGE giveaway too!
The one BIG question we constantly get from other bloggers, is "How can I make money from my blog?" or "How can I make MORE money?" Right? Who doesn't want to know the answer to that? The answer is simple: Atly
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We love everything about this! Atly is an amazing resource for people everywhere! Whether you are a person seeking to learn a new skill or an individual (like a blogger) with a skill to teach!
Say for instance you have a talent for photography, well, why not quickly and easily set up a class on lighting on Atly? It's crazy easy, the girls of My Mommy Style just set one up this month and couldn't stop raving about how beautiful the site design is; clean and easy to navigate and not to mention: crazy simple to use! The best part of all is that it is 100% FREE to set up a class and you get to set the fee for the class, $5, $15, $25 $150, whatever you want to charge, even FREE. You make 75% of the profit, which is um...AMAZING! I don't know of any other company offering such a huge earning potential!! If you're class never makes a dime, you don't pay a dime. Simple as that!

Hop on over to Atly now and share your talents. Start making some real money now! {Click Here}

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Atly is so sweet to give one lucky reader a $500 Visa Gift Card! Isn't that amazing? We sure think so!
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To enter, follow all of us on Pinterest using the links below and use the Rafflecopter widget to submit your entry!
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Now for the part you have all been waiting for, the link party! Before we begin, here are a few rules we have laid out...

-Link up your be.you.tiful lifestyle posts of design, beauty, fashion, health, and inspirational posts!
-No giveaways, Etsy shops, or other link parties
-Link up starts at 7:00 p.m.
-Don't show up and not socialize! Share, pin, and comment on 2 other link ups, it spreads good karma!
-By linking up, you're giving permission to us to feature your projects and recipes on our social media and blogs with a link back to you.

We're excited to see what you link up! Join us every Thursday at 7 pm MST to link your Be. You. tiful posts!

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

It's Official: May 15, 2014



Hello and Happy New Year!  
Many of you have already heard the exciting news, but I thought I'd spill a little more of the details on my engagement, and a picture of my pretty little ring.
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